Nothing makes me smile more than hearing a fellow gardener say "I get your garden." That was exactly what happened when a gardening friend stopped by last week. Those simple words made my heart sing.
It's gratifying when others appreciate the work that has gone into creating this garden for wildlife. My goal is to have a four season garden that is a delight to me as well as the critters. But, Clay and Limestone is not appreciated by everyone. I’ve seen the puzzled looks on visitors faces and watched them struggle to find something to say! I know they enjoy the spring drifts of Phlox pilosa and later the Penstemon calycosus, but, after the intense bloom of spring and before the late summer aster explosion, a shady Middle Tennessee garden is a lot of green! Some people have said it's too natural for their taste, others think it's not floriferous enough and one dear friend asked if Nashville had weed laws.
There was a time when I might have agreed with them.
There was a time when I might have agreed with them.
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| just a bit ago in the front garden |
It looks beautiful to me and the critters that live and visit here seem pretty happy... that feels like success.
But, that doesn't mean that I am not deeply touched when you all 'get my garden'.
I am...
Thank you.
xxoogail
"And it's all right now
yeah, I learned my lesson well
You see, you can't please everyone
so you gotta please yourself.
- Rick Nelson
Gail Eichelberger is a gardener and therapist in Middle Tennessee. She loves wildflowers and native plants and thoroughly enjoys writing about the ones she grows at Clay and Limestone. She reminds all that the words and images are the property of the author and cannot be used without written permission.











